Ha, I love that expression it being hot grease! Thank you so much for your feedback and I’m so glad to give you an outlet and someone to share kinks with. And I really love that I’m inspiring with some fun shit in the bedroom, wheee! It reminds me of the saying where it’s like ‘now we’re cooking with bacon grease!’

I feel like sex is one of those things where it can, essentially and should be, so much fun for both participants. Unfortunately for me I haven’t had that much fun with it in years and years, so I’m kind of making up for all that lost time. The duality of being a Switch is so interesting. It causes me to have this constant conflicting feeling of wanting desperately to submit, and in this case, to dominant as well.

This leaves me as a ‘fun’ case I guess for the guys I decide to be with. I fight giving into the pleasure, but I inherently and adamantly love it so much so. Having sex, the touch, their lips on me, is intensely hyper felt like through a magnifying glass or an amplifier. I’m extremely sensitive to stimuli which I guess makes me an interesting little egg to crack for the very few I let touch me and explore me.

To trust someone like you said with that level is just… so incredibly amazing. It’s such a gift to have someone, or even someone’s, to explore your sexual perimeters and expand them even further than you ever imagined. ❤️