How You Know That You’re Kinky

How we can be okay with not being the normal one

It started at a young age for me that my kinkiness was discovered. At this time all I knew was that I needed to hide my means of getting off quicker. I was an expert at getting to know the inner kinks of my body.

I would find and create my own makeshift things to be used on my nipples. We never had clothes pins, that would be too easy, so I used the metal clips attached to shirts. I’d slide them into the pocket of my jeans swiftly and use them for later.

At the time I didn’t know it was a kink. I did know that it was inherently wrong since I was raised in private Christian school all my life. They never talked about sex. I never went through sex Ed. I found out what I needed to know through trial and error.

I knew that sex was supposed to be a sin. But, I never felt like I was sinning when I was pleasuring myself.

How That Kink Manifests

I think if we’re honest with ourselves we know from a young age that we are kinky. I was using the bottoms of bottle caps and the metal prongs I found on T-shirts for my playtime.

When I had my first girlfriend we made a blindfold. We both wore it and tied each other up. Then we played a guessing game of things…