I Love Women But I Don’t Know How To Date Them

First off, where do I find them?

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I don’t know how to find women who want to date or are interested in dating. My first relationship was with my girlfriend and we found each other through sheer luck and chance. My second girlfriend was the same situation, years later in junior high school.

As an adult I don’t know how to tell women who are interested in dating and I have a tragic luck scenario of always having crushes on straight women.

I downloaded an app called Her which is highly recommended for Queer relationships. Already a woman pops up on my screen and it says “she’s only a mile away from you!” I think of how easy it is to find what I’m searching for through an app versus real life.

I’d prefer any relationship to just naturally occur through meeting someone out in the wilds, also known as the real world. Every relationship I’ve had has been serendipity of finding them and I only have one that happened because of a dating app. I have an uncanny ability to meet people and strike up a conversation and end up with phone numbers without trying.

But finding someone like me and dating women seems a lot more tricky. I was once called a baby gay and I found this interesting because I’m not new to this. I am new to my family knowing that I’m out…