I might be dating a married woman and he knows

It actually was his idea for her to explore outside of them

MentalDessert
3 min readSep 26, 2022
Photo by Dainis Graveris on Unsplash

Serendipity is a funny thing until it isn’t. I’m trying to give myself a chance to allow gay shit to happen. I’m a bisexual who originally dated girls when I was younger, but that wasn’t accepted in my family, so I got pushed into dating men most of my life. I have drawn naked women in my notebooks and been attracted to their form since memory serves me. Men were different. I had a healthy fear of them.

Assault at a young age will do that to you, as well as molestation and generalized trauma.

The dating app I’m on has a lot of polyamorous relationships seeking a third. I’m not a fan of this. As was said before, I don’t want to be your Unicorn for your threesome that you use and then dispose of.

A smoking hot woman slides into my DM’s, and we talk. She’s passionate about history, seems incredibly smart, attractive, kind, and great with messaging. I make the moves immediately on her, suggesting a museum date for us to go on. This is a secret love language for me. I love showing off museums since I used to work at one volunteering.

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MentalDessert

I'm unapologetically me with a hard edged view of life. I love to travel and have crazy amounts of fun spaced between quiet moments.